Hello, my hustling bleu bells! 💙 Shaybleu here, coming to you from the heart of the grind. Today, let's dive into a topic near and dear to my heart - juggling a 9 to 5 job while fueling the flames of your passion project.

I know what you're thinking. It sounds like a Herculean task, doesn't it? Working full-time, maintaining a relationship, and having not one but three jobs, all while trying to savor the journey and nurture your passion project. But let me tell you, it's not only possible, but it's also necessary. Necessary for creating a life that resonates with who you are and the difference you wish to make.

Now, I won't sugarcoat it. It takes work. There are days when you feel like you're being pulled in a million different directions, and all you want to do is curl up in bed and forget about it all. But those are the moments when you need to look inward and remind yourself of why you're doing what you're doing.

The secret ingredient, my loves, is to manage your time based on your values. It's about prioritizing what truly matters to you. And trust me, when you align your time with your values, it becomes the formula for your happiness.

So, what does this look like in practice?

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It starts with being brutally honest with yourself about what you value. If your passion project lights a fire in your soul, it deserves your time. It's not about finding time; it's about making time.

Next, it's about setting boundaries. Yes, you read that right. Boundaries are not limitations; they're an act of self-love. So whether it's carving out time for your passion project or spending quality moments with your loved ones, boundaries help you protect what's important.

And finally, it's about savoring the journey. The end goal is essential, but the journey to get there is where the magic happens. It's where you grow, learn, and become the person capable of achieving that goal.

Remember, my bleu bells; it's about living the life you want today, not someday. So say, "Fuck it,” I'm doing this for me!" Embrace the chaos, nurture your passion, and make a difference for yourself and others. Here's to living a life that's unapologetically ours! 🎉💙 #Fuckit #PassionProject #HustleWithHeart

I will give you Shaybleu's Anti-Aging Habits.

I created them to begin the practice of Aging Gracefully. Yes, I said it! Age GRACEFULLY.

I know this is a touchy topic that women do not discuss, but it’s life. And I want to look like Nia Long at the age of 40. You can’t tell me she doesn’t look fantastic. Guess what? Her number one secret is…SLEEP.

Coming to you live from living life and worrying about getting old, Shay Bleu’s Anti-Aging Habits. Try using two-three habits daily for 14 days and first notice how your mood changes; this affects how you age. And let me tell you, it's not about magic potions or elusive elixirs; it's about embracing positive, healthy habits. Just fucking live in the moment.

• Laugh More: They say laughter is the best medicine, and I couldn't agree more. Tune into your favorite comedic sketches on YouTube and let the giggles roll. It's all about those laugh lines, darlings!

• De-Stress: Unwind with a steaming mug of your favorite tea flavor and let chill hop beats wash over you. Even a mere 15 minutes of this daily ritual can work wonders on your mood and skin.

• Manifest Your Desires: Take a moment each day to write down five things you want. It's all about the power of intention, my loves. It's your life; shape it how you want it.

• Create Something: Unleash your inner artist! Draw, paint, write, or craft. When you create, you radiate.

• Sleep More: Beauty sleep isn't a myth. Rest rejuvenates your body and mind, so don't skimp on those Zs.

• Exercise: Get moving at least three days a week. It's not about being thin; it's about feeling good.

• Eat Healthy: Nourish your body with colorful, whole foods. Remember, you are what you eat.

  So let's say it together, my bleu bells, "Screw it, we're aging like fine wine!" 🍷💙 Because age is just a number when you live, love, and laugh the Shaybleu way. #AntiAging #HealthyHabits #FuckIt

I researched a tool we can use to make sure we obtain the healthiest amount of sleep. Research suggests for most people, a night of poor sleep can bring on noticeable physical effects, including:

Drowsiness

Headache

Dark circles under the eyes

Pale Skin