Navigating Storms and Showers - A Pre-Motherhood Reality Check
Hey Bleu Bells,
This week has been a whirlwind of emotions and realizations, all kicked off by the fury of Hurricane Beryl. Experiencing almost a week without power opened my eyes—it's no longer just about me. Next year, when hurricane season rolls around again, I'll have little Sariah depending on me, and that's a game changer.
Mentally, preparing for a baby shower amidst the chaos of recovery has been bittersweet. It's exciting but also a stark reminder of the new responsibilities that await. No longer can I "thug it out" through tough times; I have to think ahead, plan better, and ensure my safety and that of my little one.
Calvin and I are now forced to reevaluate our preparedness for such events. We’re discussing financial readiness, job flexibility, and our living situation. Can we quickly pack up and leave if another hurricane threatens our safety? Do we have the necessary supplies, like battery-operated fans, portable coolers, and emergency kits tailored for babies?
This hurricane was a trial run, a nudge from the universe to get our act together. So, while completing the finishing touches on the baby registry, I’m also making lists of baby-friendly emergency supplies. It’s about striking a balance between celebrating new beginnings and preparing for the challenges they bring.
Through all this, I'm reminded of the importance of community and support. The hurricane showed us how dependent we are on each other. Neighbors checked in, friends offered their homes, and family called relentlessly. This network will be invaluable when Sariah arrives in sunny times and when storms hit. I was so thankful to have my Aunt and Uncle bring me in with open arms. This is a sunny time when the storm hits when family comes through, no question asked!!
So, as I prepare to welcome our baby girl into the world, I’m also preparing to protect, nurture, and guide her through all seasons—rain or shine. It’s a daunting task, but with Calvin by my side and the support of our community, I’m learning that preparation is the best protection.
Now, it's baby shower time! So, I must be honest with you, Bleu Bells: completing the baby registry was stressful for me. I felt like an inexperienced merchant trying to buy items I had no idea about, down to selecting the correct type of diapers to baby bottles. I wanted to pull my hair out! I have no idea what I am doing, you all. I feel so out of place with this, which caused frustration. My body started overheating, so I just closed my laptop. I felt defeated for a moment until I asked for help from my Aunt, and we drilled it down to must-haves and essentials.
Honestly, I feel overwhelmed by the thought of giving birth so close. Pregnancy happens so fast. I feel like I just found out, and now my due date is ahead. I don’t know what I truly need or do not need for Sariah regarding baby items. I knew I needed essentials, but then I became involved in researching the different types of branding. I swear there are so many baby items out there I felt like I was in quicksand for a moment, but I finally finished it!
Take a peek by clicking on the image above, and let me know what you think I need to add or if I am on the right track! It’s my first y'all, so be gentle.
Calvin’s mom found Myregistry.com, which is very user-friendly. I loved that I could sync multiple registries from Amazon to Target! Take a look at the items I tagged! Comment below on what you think!
Stay tuned for more updates, and remember, life isn’t just about weathering storms—it's about dancing in the rain and celebrating the sunshine that follows.
With love and resilience,
Shaybleu 💙
I hope you and your families are recovering from the storm. Please comment and check out the links below to My Registry and additional links I use during the process!
